If you don't have a desire to search, what would you say to those who wonder why you have no interest in knowing where you come from?
I count myself fortunate, with all the comments I get on a regular basis, one I have not gotten (as of yet) is someone telling me they believe I was unhappy in my adoptive family or had a bad childhood as an explanation for the reason I searched for my natural family.
However, there may have been occasions where they have assumed this without saying it. It seems to me that people being curious by nature, need an explanation for everything and many times, when they don’t have a true understanding of the dynamics of adoption, they go with the most convenient explanation, rather than digging deep.
Until we can understand the assumptions in which we are drenched we cannot know ourselves.
- Adrienne Rich