On June 1, 2018 Rebekah Henson published an important thread on Twitter critiquing the hashtags #FamiliesBelongTogether and #Ke...
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Personal Opinions Regarding Adoption: What is your opinion of adoption today? Are you in favor of or against adoption and how do various circumstances affect your opinion? Has your opinion changed over time? If so, what caused you to rethink your former opinion? What do you think is the biggest need for change in the adoption industry, or is the current model for adoption fine the way it is?
My opinion of adoption has changed over time. What caused me to re-think my former opinion was... [wait for it]
Yes. That's really what it was.
I had a few decades to think. Particularly the ones where I was having children.
I allowed my mind to go there.
Most adoptees know where THERE is.
Once you have your own kids it's almost impossible for it to not go THERE.
It's the place you had tried to block out in your mind so many times over your lifetime because you're not ready to go there emotionally. It's a horribly scary place where you contemplate how a woman you've been told all your life, "loved you so much and wanted you to have a better life" placed you with strangers.