My Birth Culture
As an female and Asian adult adoptee maybe I'm scared of love since most of my experiences with the opposite sex has involved both stereotypes, prejudices and racism. My first boyfriend was not an adoptee or Asian, he was a Caucasian. We were High School sweethearts, but now when I think about it he actually approched me assuming I knew Japanese. (Yes I am Asian; but not Japanese.)
This experience thought me I probably would have to look for an Asian male or adoptee or possibly both. KAD love all around it is the bomb right.
Yet I know you can't control love once it enters your life you can either accept or try to resist it.