Our Writers

Julie S., Amanda, Kevin Vollmers, Amira Rose, Jenn, Michelle, Aselefech, Amb. Susan Jacobs, Rosita, & Karen P.

Angela Tucker
Angela Tucker is a trans-racial adoptee, adopted from foster care, with special needs. She recently reunited with some of her birth relatives, and is still actively searching for another birth sister. Angela's story and adoptee-rights work has been featured on Huffington Post, Slate, The Daily Kos and other mediums. She was interviewed by NPR, but her interview was then recanted which prompted #NPR-gate. She regularly gives keynote speeches and leads workshops on transracial adoption around the nation. Angela is married to Bryan Tucker, the documentarian and filmmaker of Closure; www.closuredocumentary.com, a feature length documentary that chronicles Angela's adoption search and reunion. She blogs about adoption, white privilege, race relations and cultural affairs www.theadoptedlife.com.

Rosita González
Feminist columnist, Rosita Gonz├ílez is a transracial, Korean-American adoptee. She is married to a Brit and is a mother to two multiracial children. Rosita was adopted in 1968 at the age of one through Holt International. Her road has been speckled with Puerto Rican and Appalachian relatives and her multiracial sister, the natural child of her adoptive parents. While quite content with her role as a “Tennerican,” her curiosity has grown recently as her children explore their own ethnic identities. She considers herself a lost daughter, not only because of the loss of her birth family, but also because of the loss of her adoptive parents. After the death of her adoptive father, she discovered that he had fathered a Korean son two years before her birth; she is searching for him. Rosita recently returned from a five-month stint in Seoul, South Korea, with her family and their three cats. Follow her adventures as an adoptee on her blog, mothermade.

Jenn was born and domestically (United States) adopted in the late eighty’s as an infant in Massachusetts, a tiered access state. She searched and found her first family in 2010 with no access to her original birth certificate (she was born in a blackout year) and has been traveling the rocky road that is reunion ever since.  When Jenn isn't pondering adoption and what it means to her, she can often be found curled up with a good book or dancing her bedroom with the music blasting.

Julie Stromberg
Born, fostered, adopted and raised in Connecticut, Julie reconnected with her natural parents and families in 1998. Since then, she has applied her lifelong experience as an adopted person to conducting critical analysis of global adoption practices. She holds a bachelor's degree in journalism from Loyola University Maryland and her essays on the adoption experience and industry have been published online and in print. In addition to advocating for adoption policy reform, she works as a copywriter and content strategist. She is currently pursuing a master's degree in user experience design from Kent State University. When she is not at the office, she can be found on the white couch with a book or driving her sons around. www.juliegmstromberg.com

Karen Pickell
Karen Pickell was born and adopted in Ohio in the late 1960s. She reunited with her birth mother in 2005 and with her birth father in 2007. Her husband is an adoptive father of two children, now grown, from his first marriage, one of whom was adopted from Korea. Karen and her husband live in Florida with their two biological children. She holds a Master of Arts in Professional Writing from Kennesaw State University in Georgia; she has published poems, essays, and stories, and is currently drafting a memoir. She previously served on the board of directors of the Georgia Writers Association, as editor for the Georgia Poetry Society, and as associate editor of the literary journal Flycatcher. Karen recently founded Adoptee Reading Resource. She blogs about writing, adoption, and other topics at www.karenpickell.com.

Liberty was born and adopted in Illinois under the closed adoption system. With an otherwise happy upbringing, she struggled with identity, due to the secrets surrounding her background and living as a mixed-race person in rural Midwest. (Her hair was a clue to her racial heritage, which her adoptive parents were not aware of.) She found her birth mother, whose background is Irish and English, through the adoption agency at age 19, and found her African-American biological father through Facebook at age 28. She received her original birth certificate from the state of Illinois in 2012, after the passage of historic legislation allowing access. She teaches English in Pittsburgh, PA, and is writing a memoir about her experiences.

Stephanie Oyler, MSW, LSW
Stephanie is a licensed master social worker, therapist, speaker, and writer. She was adopted transracially through the US foster care system and reunited with her birth family as an adult. Stephanie has served families through maternal-child health work, through foster care casework, and through post-adoption support. During her education, she organized students to meet the needs of non-traditional parent students on campus. Stephanie currently leads the clinical support to all members of the adoption constellation pre-and-post adoption for her county's adoption unit. Stephanie owns Adoptee LIT, LLC which provides consultation and education to families impacted by adoption. Additionally, Stephanie co-owns Roots Incorporated through which she co-hosts an adoption podcast and co-leads the Motherloss project. Stephanie lives in the Greater Philadelphia Area with her husband, who is a registered nurse, and their two children.

Rebecca Hawkes 
Rebecca Hawkes is a Baby Scoop Era adoptee in reunion. She lives in Chicopee, MA, with her roller coaster enthusiast husband and occasionally catches sight of her college-aged daughters. Her most recent writing can be found at rebeccahawkes.com.

Lynn Grubb 
Lynn Grubb is a closed-era adoptee, step mother, biological mother and kinship adoptive parent. Lynn is a paralegal and a former Court-Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for children in Ohio. Lynn has been in reunion with her original mother and sister since 2006.  Lynn writes about adoption at www.noapologiesforbeingme.blogspot.com.

Deanna Shrodes 
Deanna Shrodes is an adult adoptee (adopted in 1966) who searched and found her original mother, sister and brother and reunited with them in 1993. She has been married for 25 years and has three children and lives in the Tampa Bay area. She is passionate about bringing hope and healing to adoptees as well as expanding the Christian community's understanding of adoption. Deanna is a licensed minister, pastor and career coach. She writes about adoption at Adoptee Restoration.

Grace Newton
Grace Newton is a Chinese adoptee and current Master of Social Work student, concentrating in Violence and Injury Prevention. She is interested in kinship care, family preservation, and gobal deinstitutionalization in child welfare. For adoptees, she is interested in identity formation, multicultural identity integration, as well as issues over the life course. Grace serves on the advisory council for the Korean American Adoptee an Adoptive Family Network (KAAN) and has presented on her personal and professional experiences related to adoption at several conferences including the KAAN Conference, Racial Justice Summit, and Midwest Conference on Asian Affiars. Grace has authored the blog, Red Thread Broken, since 2013, which has been a profound place of reflection, connection, and growth. Visit redthreadbroken.wordpress.com for more of her thoughts on the intersections of race, politics, power, and culture in international adoption.

Laura Dennis
Laura Dennis is an adult adoptee in reunion with her maternal biological family. Born in New Jersey, raised in Maryland, she considers herself a “California girl,” even though she currently lives in her husband’s hometown, Belgrade, Serbia, with their two small children. Adopted Reality, Laura’s 9/11 memoir of adoption, reunion and a brief bout with insanity is available on Amazon. She blogs about expat (adopted) mommy life.

Cathy Heslin 
Cathy is a a reunited adult adoptee of private, domestic infant adoption.  She has written a memoir in partnership with her birthmother called Kathleen-Cathleen — A True Story of Adoption and Reunionwhere she and her birthmother write alternating chapters sharing their experience of reunion from both the perspective of the adoptee and the birthmother. They have chosen not to read each other's sides of the story until the book is published so that their perspectives stay intact and uninfluenced by each other. In the same way, they have been writing parallel blogs on shared themes: Cathy's (the adoptee) blog is reunioneyes.blogspot.com, and Kate's (the birthmother) blog is mothertone.wordpress.com.

Pam Roberts
Pam is a licensed clinical social worker, a wife, a mother, a friend, and an adoptee. Pam was born, relinquished, and adopted in the fall of 1966. She is professionally and personally concerned about the rights and well being of adult adoptees, especially those born in States such as Utah, where she was born and records remain tightly sealed. Pam works as a psychotherapist specializing in adoption loss and believes an important part of healing the human condition is first exploring, and then understanding, ones family of origin to include the impact of culture, life experience, and genetics - the good and the bad. From a social justice perspective Pam believes that as citizens of these United States, adult adoptees should have the right and liberty to access all legal records and documents that pertain directly to them. Pam recently identified her family of origin and is looking forward to reunion.

Mila is a reunited Korean American transracial adult adoptee. She was born in Seoul, Korea in 1975 and adopted 6 months after her birth. She is a wife and new mom. She reunited with both her Omma and her Appa in 2009 and keeps on-going communication with them. Mila blogs about her experiences as an adoptee, about family preservation and ethics, and about her journey through reunion on her personal blog, Yoon's Blur.

Lisa Marie Rollins
Lisa Marie Rollins @thirdrootprod is a Black/ Filipina writer, playwright, lecturer and solo performance artist. She is author of the acclaimed solo show, Ungrateful Daughter: One Black Girls Story of being adopted by a White Family… that aren’t Celebrities.  Lisa Marie has been a commentator on CNN, NPR, HuffPostLive, and is one of Colorlines Magazine’s “Innovators to Watch” for her social justice work around transracial/ international adoption and advocacy. Lisa Marie was the Adoption Education Specialist for Pact, An Adoption Alliance from 2006-2008 and is currently a regular Adoption consultant for OFC – Our Family Coalition in San Francisco, CA. She was a past Poet in Residence at June Jordan’s Poetry for the People at U.C. Berkeley, is an alumni in Poetry of VONA Writing Workshop, and is a Callaloo Fellow. Her work has been published in Eye to the Telescope, Other Tongues: Mixed-Race Women Speak Out, As/Us Literary Journal, Line/Break, The Pacific Review and others.  As Founder / Director of AFAAD, Adopted and Fostered Adults of the African Diaspora, Lisa Marie helped build one of the first organizations to focus on the needs of adult adoptees and foster care alumni of African descent. Lisa Marie holds an M.A. in Cultural Studies, an M.A. in African American Studies from U.C. Berkeley. Her future dissertation work will focus on narratives of black women and colonial construction of black women’s bodies as they appear in contemporary discourses of adoption. She authored “A Birth Project”, a blog focusing on transracial adoption and black diasporic identity from 2006-2013. She is currently focused in on her new manuscript of poems, “Anchoring the Compass”, and in development for her new play, “Side Effects”. birthproject.wordpress.com

Jennifer Jue-Steuck
Jennifer Bao Yu ‘Precious Jade’ Jue-Steuck of Laguna Beach (Orange County), California, is a graduate of New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts and Harvard University, where she was a Bill & Melinda Gates Scholar. Born to a birthmother from Jiangsu Province, China, Jennifer was adopted by an American couple from Los Angeles in 1979. She is founder of Chinese Adoptee Links (CAL) International - G2, the first global group created by and for the 150,000 Chinese adoptees in 26 countries, and is a co-founder of their One World Blog (ChineseAdoptee.com). Inspired by her (adoptive) mother's life and battle with ovarian cancer, INSPIRATION ICE CREAM is a foodie memoir fundraiser to raise awareness about the effects of adoption motherloss and child bereavement.

Aselefech Evans
Aselefech is an adult adoptee who arrived from Ethiopia to the U.S. in 1994 at 6 years of age, along with her twin sister. She is finishing up her undergraduate degree at the University of Maryland, College Park as a Family Sciences major. In her personal life, she has presented at workshops and Heritage Camps, interned for adoption based agencies, and spoken on panels on issues of race and what it means to grow up in a transracial family. In the past and currently she works with NGOs, such as Ethiopia Reads, to give back to her country of origin. Her dream is creating a world where no child needs to be adopted, where all children are safe, loved, and educated.

Lynn Steinberg
Lynn Steinberg is an adult adoptee from Chapel Hill, North Carolina. Lynn was adopted in Ohio in 1975 and raised by her parents on Long Island, New York along with her older brother who was also adopted. Her adoption was closed and Lynn’s adoptive parents knew nothing about her Birth Family or story leading up to her relinquishment. At the age of 35, after having two biological children, Lynn and her husband Michael adopted a baby girl from Ethiopia. It was the adoption of her daughter that ignited an innate interest in searching for her Birth Mother. In 2009, Lynn found her Birth Mother and half-siblings with the help of a Private Investigator. Upon reunion, she discovered that her existence had been kept a secret from her siblings by her Birth Mother for 35 years. With that said, Lynn was joyously accepted by her Birth Mother and siblings, but continually struggles with her identity and comfort level within her Birth Family. She feels there is a lack of support and resources for adult adoptees once the initial reunion is complete and hopes to act as a source of support what she calls, “The Reunion after the Reunion.”

Lynn is a strong advocate for opening adoption records nationwide and in passionate about educating adoptive parents on the importance of open communication and lifelong emotional support of their adopted children. She hopes that her column on The Lost Daughters will serve as a platform for her interest to become an integral part of the adult adoptee community.

Amira Rose
Amira Rose Davis is a transracial adoptee who was born in Texas in 1988 and adopted as an infant and raised by two awesome adoptive mothers in Massachusetts. She has been reunited with her birth parents and siblings since 2009. Both sides of her growing family were in attendance at her wedding to Michael the following year. Amira Rose is mom to a spunky 6-year old diva and a mischievous 18th month old daredevil. Amira Rose is currently a PhD Candidate in History at Johns Hopkins University and when not researching or writing her dissertation she enjoys obsessing about Boston sports and planning Disney vacations.

Mariette Williams
Mariette Williams is a transracial adoptee who was born in Haiti and adopted at the age of three. She grew up in Vancouver, B.C. with four other Haitian adoptee siblings. In 2014, she decided to embark on a year long blogging project, sharing stories from all different perspectives at www.thosefourlittlewords.com. During her year of blogging, she searched for and found her birth family. She is the founder of the Haitian Adoptee Facebook book, where she hopes to bring Haitian adoptees together to support the next generation. Mariette teaches middle school English and lives in South Florida with her husband and two children.

Joy Lieberthal Rho, LCSW-R 
Joy received her B.S. from Union College and her Masters in Social Work from Columbia University. She has been working in the field of adoption for the last 14 years professionally and through various volunteer organizations. She was a Policy Analyst for the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute where she co-authored the Report on the First Gathering of Adult Korean Adoptees in Washington, DC and has also been published by Child Welfare League of America in their Adoption and Ethics series. She also worked for Adoptive Families Magazine. Joy was a social worker in international placement for Spence-Chapin Services in NYC and ultimately worked in their post-adoption department for six years. During that time Joy has worked as a counselor for children and parents, presented at workshops related to issues around being adopted, facilitated Spence-Chapin’s Kids Groups, facilitated teen groups, and helped to create the highly successful youth Mentorship program. She has created curricula for agencies and professionals on a wide variety of topics – such as preparing for birthcountry visits, an overview of clinical issues in adoption – as they relate to helping families and children around adoption issues. Joy has spoken in local and national forums, in particular, at the Joint Council on International Children Services, Adoptive Parents Committee, Families with Children from China and the North American Council on Adoptable Children. She is currently in private practice and works primarily with kids and young adults who are adopted. She is also a counselor at The Juilliard School in Manhattan.

Joy is adopted from South Korea. She came to her family just shy of her sixth birthday. She grew up in New York. She was the president for six years of Also-Known-As, a NY based non-profit volunteer organization for internationally adopted people and families. She created their highly successful youth mentorship program and ran a variety of forums for adult adoptees. She was on the planning committee for the First Gathering of Korean Adoptees in 1999 as well as the Gathering in Korea in 2004. She lived in Korea for a year working in the orphanage where she once resided. During that time she learned how to speak Korean, learned that her birthmother had been searching for her for 21 years and learned that her identity as a Korean adopted person was a significant aspect of who she is. She has been in reunion with her birthmother since 1994.

Kimberly McKee, PhD
Kimberly McKee is an associate professor in integrative, religious, and intercultural studies at Grand Valley State University. She is the author of Disrupting Kinship: Transnational Politics of Korean Adoption in the United States (University of Illinois Press, 2019) and co-editor of Degrees of Difference: Reflections of Women of Color on Graduate School (University of Illinois Press, 2020). Her work also has been featured in Journal of Korean Studies, Adoption & Culture, Feminist Formations, and edited collections on transnational kinship and representations of Asian Americans. She serves on the executive committee for the Alliance of the Study of Adoption and Culture. For more information, please visit: http://mckeekimberly.com/

Elle is a female Korean adoptee who was relinquished for intercountry adoption 2 days after her birth. She was adopted to Sweden before 3 months old. She was born as the 7th and last daughter of her birth parents and has one younger birth sibling. Her brother, younger than her by five years, was also adopted from Korea. She found her birth family 10 years ago, when she was fifteen years old. Now in her 20's, she has visited Korea twice. 

ElaineP is a reunited adult adoptee of private, domestic infant adoption. She blogs regularly at her personal blog, Elaine's Blog.

Samantha Franklin
Samantha is an adult adoptee of private, domestic (United States) infant adoption. She is a wife, mother, Christian, Adoptee Rights Activist and an Adoption Reform and Family Preservation Advocate. She has been in reunion for two decades. Samantha blogs about adoption at her personal blog Neither Here Nor There.

Nikki is an adult adoptee of private, domestic (United States), infant adoption. She was born in Maine, an open-access state, and obtained her OBC is December 2009. She has been in reunion with her maternal and paternal original families since January 2010. Nikki is a wife and a mom to both biological and adopted children. She enjoys running, reading, and spending time with her family.

Carlynne Hershberger 
Carlynne is a late discovery adoptee who was adopted by her step-father. She is also a natural mother who lost a daughter to a coerced adoption in 1980. She found out about her own adoption 6 years after losing her daughter. She's been reunited with her daughter for 10 years. She now blogs about adoption at One Option Means No Choice and she is currently the treasurer for Origins-USA.

julie j
julie j is an adult adoptee who was stolen from her family as a young child. She was in American foster care in the early 1960’s and then later illegally adopted. She has happily been in reunion since ’93, thanks to ISRR. She recently acquired her OBC through a court order :)  julie j is a wife, mother, business owner, family preservationist, activist for adoptee rights, child advocate and adoption search angel. Her other interests include reading, theater, genealogy, music, games, & working out. One of her future goals is to become a CASA volunteer.

Michelle is a recently reunited adult adoptee and a mother through birth and adoption. Born in the late 1960’s, she was adopted as an infant in what was then a typical closed adoption. The laws of her state continue to reflect the stigma and secrecy of that time, prohibiting her from obtaining her original birth certificate without a court order. She is indebted a handful of mothers who laid their souls bare and patiently bore with her in the early years of examining her thoughts and feelings about adoption. Today she is proud to advocate for adoptee rights, family preservation, and adoption reform. You can find more of Michelle’s writings at her personal adoption blog, The Warrior Princess Diaries.

Soojung Jo
You can't label a person, but if you tried, these are some of the labels I've worn: daughter, orphan, adopted daughter, wife, soldier, veteran, engineer, manager, mother, adopter, writer. As writer: I contribute to the Lost Daughters blog and several adoption-related anthologies, all in development. I wrote for the now-retired blogs Faiths and Illusions and Grown in My Heart. As orphan, daughter, and adopted daughter: I have an American family that raised me and a Korean family that lost and found me. Both families met in 2013. As wife and mother: I live with my husband, Brett, and four children (3 biological, 1 adopted from China) in Southern California.


Amanda Transue-Woolston, MSS, LSW
Amanda is a licensed master social worker, therapist, author, and speaker. She was adopted as an infant through the largest adoption agency in the US. For over a decade, Amanda has served children and families through individual clinical work, group work, community organizing, public policy advocacy, and writing and lecturing. Currently, Amanda is faculty for several colleges teaching social work, psychology, and sociology classes. Amanda is the founder of the Lost Daughters writing project. She is author of The Declassified Adoptee in addition to editing and contributing to nearly one dozen other books. Additionally, Amanda co-owns Roots Incorporated through which she co-hosts an adoption podcast and co-leads the Motherloss project. Amanda lives in the Greater Philadelphia Area with her husband and their two children.

In Honor of

Trace A. Demeyer (retired activist)
Trace is one of the original Lost Daughter's authors. She wrote Lost Daughter's very first post, and is now retired from activism. She is an award-winning Shawnee-Cherokee author Trace A. DeMeyer has published her memoir, One Small Sacrifice: Lost Children of the Indian Adoption Project, which includes opening her adoption and little-known history and details on the Indian Adoption Project resulting in the Indian Child Welfare Act. Trace is former editor of the Pequot Times in Connecticut and editor/co-founder of Ojibwe Akiing; and she was news reporter and photographer at the national Native newspaper News From Indian Country in Wisconsin.  Trace's work can be found at AMERICAN INDIAN ADOPTEES: Lost Children, Lost Ones, Lost Birds.

In Loving Memory

Susan Perry
Susan was a 63-year-old adoptee, mother of two girls, and grandmother of six. She was a member of NJCARE and a passionate advocate for adoptee rights. Her advocacy for adoptees began when she discovered a serious medical problem. After years of fighting a health battle, and for the rights of adoptees, Susan died from melanoma. The last 8 months of her life were spent writing back and forth with her birth sisters almost everyday. Susan was a retired teacher and public relations professional.  Her legacy is carried on by her children who maintain her blog, Nana Days. Susan was a Lost Daughter's contributor for two years and is our sister forever.

Von is an Australian adoptee of the forced adoption era and has lived the adopted life for 66 years. She is known by her family and dearest friends as someone who takes no prisoners and has a horror of bigotry and injustice.She is a strong believer in the rights of children, the power of love and the medicinal powers of chocolate. She speaks her truth and often describes herself as an adoptee who is 'out, proud and loud". She had the benefit of Yorkshire genes for direct speaking and Somerset genes for perseverance. The Grandmother in her avatar she never knew but has taken as a role model and an inspiration.She is still waiting to be told she is not the oldest blogger on adoption in the blogosphere. Von blogs regularly at her personal blog The Life of Von.